Adversity makes strange bedfellows. So does opportunity.
Nowhere is this more prevalent than in Dubai, where a variety of factors,
though all rooted in the monetary, makes people choose to live together… with
strangers.
For as many people who may flock to the emirate for the life of luxury, there
are those who are happy to have a bed to sleep in and some extra space for their
belongings.
If a bedroom turns out to be too costly, just a bed space will do.
And if that space cannot be afforded, even the bed can be shared.
Thousands of strangers from all over the world come across other strangers,
within the private setting of their living space.
Different cultures, generations or personalities live side-by-side sharing
kitchen, bath and bed in return for the cheapest monthly
rent.
The Bad
Whether the setup is successful or not, sharing will be done.
The Belarus 31-year-old Olga has become an expert in the field.
Moving from place to place, she now knows that not every living condition is
made for her.
She describes her most recent living situation – a shared bedroom with only
one bed - as a disaster:
“The girl I lived with smoked, although I told her that I hate smoke.
“She talked to me when I was reading, used my stuff without asking and she
would answer her phone in the middle of the night, while I was sleeping right
next to her.”
When one day Olga stood up to use the washroom, and her flat mate took over
her laptop, closed all her conversations and started her own, Olga was done.
“I could not bear to live there anymore.”
The
Ugly
When sharing a small area it is hard to escape from the person around
you.
It is then not surprising that in an attempt to avoid running into the
‘horror roommate’ people tend to minimise their selection criteria, resulting in
room-for-rent classifieds that resemble those on a dating site;
‘Filipino lady only’, ‘vegetarian only’, ‘bachelor only’ or ‘working lady
only’ are some of the search criteria that are used in these advertisements,
often added with a list of personality requirements such as easy-going, silent,
hardworking, clean, etc.
“I prefer to find somebody with the same nationality as mine,” says Filipina
Rachel, adding that she has had some nice flat mates of other nationalities
too.
“Of course there are many nice people, but it is comfortable to know that
somebody is cooking the same food, speaking the same language and sharing the
same culture. There is less chance of miscommunication.”
It angered Basheer Kareem, a Syrian bachelor who was looking for a room in
Dubai before he moved on his own. “I do not qualify for most of the available
rooms because I am an Arabic male. As soon as a mentioned these credentials on
the phone, I lost my chance to see the room,” he says.
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