Having sex with
your colleagues could get you fired, a relationship
psychologist has warned.
According to Quest News, despite
the inherent complications of office romance, a recent RSVP Date of the Nation
report found 28 per cent of people were still hooking in to people they worked
with.
But the consequences of a bad romance could result in loss of job, isolation and gossip according to
relationship psychologist John Aiken.
"Research the HR policy so you know whether it is actually going to get
you fired or not," News.com.au quoted him as saying.
"Don't kiss, touch or have sex in
the office.
"Always have boundaries. Don't argue in public or in the
office.
"If you're dating someone who is in a position of power over you
like your boss, that can create some problems in terms of how you are treated in
the office but
also how others look at you in the office.
"People can feel somewhat
uncomfortable, they might firstly think there is some favouritism going on and
there might be jealousy.
"But also when you are with them you might find
you are the target of gossip, rumours, jealousy,"'' he said.
What
follows is obviously the ugly break-up.
"If it doesn't work out you've got
that awkwardness of seeing them every day but you might have dumped them or
broken their heart. That can be very painful,''" he said.
"You need to
have a conversation with someone that you're working with early on about
breaking up, which is really unusual," Aiken added.
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